Too Much Food!!

* Disclaimer:  I realize there are some generalizations about people and cultures in this post!  There are ALWAYS exceptions to the rule and these are observations Nate or I have made in our 13 months living in Nicaragua, so take it as that and nothing more!  Plus, it’s our personal blog, we can say what we want!!  Comments, observations, suggestions, advise—write us!

Food is something we all have in common across cultures—we all have to eat!  Nicaraguans are very proud of their dishes and generally not very experimental with new dishes and foods.  Many Nicaraguans do not like spicy foods and if are given something new, probably won’t like it.  In my opinion, many are picky eaters and like their mama’s gallo pinto (rice and beans) the best!  So we do not attempt to replicate anyone’s mothers’ home-cooking.  We bring our own culture into the kitchen and try to introduce new things subtly and slowly to friends and neighbors who are willing.  It’s best not to be offended when a Nicaraguan adds three more spoonfuls of sugar to their already sweetened coffee or homemade fruit juice you have made for them.  It’s also best to just offer salt to them when you give them food because chances are we didn’t salt it enough!  The small but noticeable culturally differences we encounter.

Since food is something we share in common with everyone, we realize it’s important to not be picky ourselves and to accept what is given to us with gratitude and a smile!  Although we are vegetarians and have kept it that way while living here, there are exceptions.  If we are offered meat in a situation that we can’t just tell them we’re vegetarians, we will try to eat what we can without getting ourselves sick.  One example:  We were invited to our pastor’s house in Teustepe for lunch.  We completely forgot to mention in advance that we don’t eat meat, so we arrive and are served arroz aquita (soupy rice with chicken).  We couldn’t say in the moment that we wouldn’t eat this dish after they graciously invited us and prepared a meal for us, so we ate as much chicken as we could off the bone.

Portion sizes are something we both struggle with, especially in the campo.  I’ve mentioned before that tortillas are the size of plates, right?  Well they are!  Rice is served on one half of your plate and red beans on the other half, plus a huge chunk of salty cuajada (campo cheese) and a tortilla the size of your face. 

What method will I choose? 

1. Can I manage to eat it all fast enough before I feel how full I am?  I’ll deal with the consequences of heartburn and acid-reflex for the rest of the day or night. 
2. Can I try eating slowly to attempt to aid my digestive track, but in the process my brain realizes how full I really am.  The last half of my plate I am fighting to shove it in without getting sick from the feeling of how full I am. 
3. Attempt to hide some food and feed it to the dog or pig nearby when no one is looking!  This is tricky when in a household of 5 or more people, but it has been done!!
4. Try to be in the room with the person serving your food and tell them you want less. (This is only an option if we know people better and feel comfortable doing this.)  We then end up with a large portion instead of an EXTRA-large portion. 
5. Choosing not to eat it all!  Really we don’t feel like this is an option!  (This option is very tricky because you could easily offend the cooks or it could be seen as food wasted that someone else would have eaten.) 

What would you choose?  These methods are completely healthy, right?  All in the name of cultural sensitivity!?!?  How will I survive this for two more years?            

Not too mention the amount of sugar, salt, oil and sometimes cream that people use in their cooking here is INSANE!!!  This is no joke!  If I come out alive without diabetes, high cholesterol or obesity issues I think I’ll be in good shape!  It’s no wonder diabetes, kidney and gall bladder issues are so common here!

I struggle with finding the delicate balance between being culturally sensitive and listening to what my body can handle!!

Matagalpa Getaway!

Beautiful adorned Cathedral

Garden at our Hostal!

We finally had our getaway anniversary weekend!  We went to Matagalpa in the the northern highlands.  It was about a 3 hour bus ride from Managua, but only 1.5 hours back!  The climate was cooler, the air was fresher and the lush, green mountains surrounding us made us feel like we were back in Colorado, well almost!  The city buzzed with energy-people actually walked faster than anywhere else I've seen in Nicaragua!  We walked around, enjoyed the sites, people-watched and ate really yummy food!  Not to mention, all the wonderful coffee shops they had in town!  It was a great trip, minus Liz getting a sinus infection from the start and feeling lousy!  We will be back again when we are both healthy-to explore, go hiking and of course for more local coffee!  

Nate enjoying the local coffee!

Liz enjoying an iced mocha!

Night lights and hills of Matagalpa!

Happy Anniversary!

We celebrated our anniversary on July 28th!  It's hard to believe that we've been married for nine years already!  Time sure flies!  We had community meetings all day, about an hour north us, so we didn't have a full day of relaxing and celebrating.  We're planning a weekend away up north in the mountains, which will happen some time this month!

In the Central Park in Teustepe!

Household Chores

In the States, I agonized over chores, such as dusting, cleaning the bathroom and dealing with piles of papers on our dining room table.  The time, energy and hours I spent cleaning our Boulder apartment on Saturdays or other days in the week were many.  I’m not saying I did it all alone either, Nate helped out substantially with household chores (whether he enjoyed it or not).  My priority to have a clean house was always near the top of my list. 

Throughout the past ten months, I’ve had time to reflect on my household chores, and the similarities and differences to my previous life and life here in Nicaragua.

Sweeping & Mopping vs. Vacuuming

• In Boulder, I always vacuumed our whole apartment because we had carpet.  It was fast and easy with noticeable results!
• Sweeping is a daily task that most women partake in.  In attempts to “fit in” and clean up, I regularly sweep off my front porch and stoop outside.  I actually did this a lot in Boulder too, but here I find (almost daily) chip bags, juice boxes, mango or jocote pits (when in season), plastic water bags, candy wrappers and such that kids drop behind our wall as they go to and from school.  We live on the same street as the grade school so there is A LOT of kid traffic on our road!
• Additionally, there are always a variety of bugs to sweep up daily—dead or alive they go outside!  We have also noticed “seasons” of bugs, whether it is ants with wings, beetles or crickets. 
• With tile floors, a broom and dustpan is all one needs to get the job done!  Although the quality is lacking in the brooms here since I've broken two already.  But there always is mopping to do if you want to really get things clean!  This is much more time consuming and tiring than vacuuming.  It happens in our house, but not as often as people here tend to mop.  Many mop their houses daily!!  I can’t imagine, it’s hard enough mopping every other week! 

On Water

• In Boulder I had houseplants that started overtaking our living room.  It was a weekly chore to water them all and make sure they were all happy and healthy.  Plus in the summers, we had a garden, which needed nightly watering at times. 
• In Teustepe, I don’t own one houseplant!  I know, it’s quite sad but true.  We do plan to have a garden, but as of yet we are still planning.  So no watering as of yet!
• In Teustepe, we always need to consider is our water supply.  We have two huge plastic barrels in our shower to save water, and several water jugs in our kitchen to fill and save for when our water turns off.  Sometimes we just don’t have enough pressure to take a shower.  We always keep our water filter full for drinking, and keep all receptacles full just in case!  Something we never had to think about in Boulder.
• When it’s really hot, keeping up with our ice supply turns into a daily chore!

Dishes

• In Boulder, dishes at times got seriously out of hand (and we didn’t have a dishwasher either)!  Two days of dishes meant two sinks worth of dirty dishes that typically extended themselves out onto the counter or even the stove.  Nate and I had to tally who did dishes last, because the task at hand was often overwhelming.     
• Since our water supply fluctuates, and bugs are persistent, we usually try to do dishes immediately after a meal.  This makes the quantity of dishes less when you’re doing them more often, so disputes on who’s turn it is to wash dishes are fewer.  Plus, we don’t have a kitchen sink with a drain; we just have a dishpan, which we have to dump outside, so we use less water doing dishes here.

Laundry

• In Boulder, we had access to a washer and dryer in our apartment unit.  With enough quarters on hand, I could do all our laundry until my heart was content!  Washed, dried and folded within three hours!
• In Teustepe, we have a lavendero or pila, which we hand wash some of our clothes on.  I know we’ve mentioned this before, so I won’t go into more detail.  It’s a lot of work, so we have a tendency to haul our laundry into Managua to wash at the MCC office in a washing machine.  No dryers though!  All laundry is hung up outside to dry, and in the rainy season you have to find enough space under a roof to hang it all.  It can be a couple days till it dries when it’s really rainy and cloudy outside.

Dusting

• In Boulder, I attempted to dust every week or every other week.  There were always lots of surfaces to cover, things to move around and get under—definitely not my favorite thing to do!
• In Teustepe, when it’s not the dusty-dry season, dust isn’t all that bad!  Maybe I choose to ignore it!  During the dry season, we were wiping off surfaces every thirty minutes if we were going to eat or work on the computer.  Otherwise, it was a lost cause trying to keep things clean.

Bathroom

• Cleaning bathrooms is equally un-fun no matter what country you’re in!  Our bathroom in Teustepe doesn’t get quite as shiny white as it was in Boulder.  Again, a chance to lower standards and overlook areas.

Random Chores

In Boulder—

• Mail always seemed to accumulate in piles on our dining room table.  It became a weekly chore to deal with it all!  Most headed to the recycling bin! 
• Trash—we always had a dumpster at our apartment, so we could take out our trash whenever we needed.  We accumulated a lot more trash and recycling in the states then we do in Nicaragua.  And we honestly didn’t have more than one kitchen-sized garbage bag of trash in Boulder! 
• Grocery shopping—I usually tried to do one big trip to several places about every week or ten days.  It usually took about two hours including the drive. 
• Errands—I would always use our car to get around and locations could be all over Boulder and perhaps not even completed in one Saturday!  So I split my errands up and prioritized them to do the most important ones first.  Plus I always devised an order of where I would go first, second, etc. so I would make best use of travel time!

In Teustepe—

• Mail, what mail?  We don’t have any piles of junk mail to wade through here!  Yet it still amazes me how random piles of papers can still accumulate here even though we don’t have incoming mail!
• Trash—since there is no trash service here in Teustepe, Nate is now the proud trash-burner of our household.  Recycling, what’s that?  We save recyclables and haul them into Managua to be (hopefully) recycled there.  We also find creative ways to reuse plastic bottles.  In the near future, they will house our seedlings for our vegetable garden.
• Grocery shopping—in Teustepe, it consists of one of us walking around the corner to buy milk, eggs, or other basics.  Not very far to go, and shopping is done in about ten minutes!
• Errands—in Teustepe every place has their specialty, or they are a pulpería, which means they have a little bit of everything.  So when I want tortillas, cuajada (a cheese equivalent), cooked beans, and a fresco (juice) for dinner, I would go to four different locations to buy each one.  The nice thing is every place is within three blocks from our house!  So all errands are by foot and still don’t take very long!
• When it’s really hot, carrying a fan to whatever room I am in becomes a chore!  It’s like a new and necessary appendage!
• During the rainy season, there are more frogs around (both tiny and large).  We catch them and put them outside, where they should be, and not in our shower or living room!
• Mosquito swatting!  Nate has personally taken it upon himself to kill as many mosquitoes as possible on any given day!  He’s perfecting the mid-air/one-hand kill, but those buggers still bite!
• Killing ants!  Additionally, Nate has a mission to kill colonies of ants that lurk in the cracks of house!  Boiling water (sometimes mixed with detergent) is what wards them off best!

Here in Nicaragua, my priorities have changed a bit in regards to household chores.  My house in Teustepe will never be as “clean” as my apartment in Boulder, and with this realization, my standards have dropped and my priorities have changed.  I don’t really feel like this has been a “bad” thing in my life; really it was a necessity to preserve my sanity (and Nate’s).  Additionally, it has been a healthy release of my OCD tendencies towards cleanliness.

To be Thankful = Agradecer

I have much to be thankful for, and for this I feel very fortunate!  I have had this strong sense of thankfulness for several days now, maybe even for the past two weeks since we returned from our vacations in the states.  We had three glorious weeks packed full of wonderful memories of times with friends and family in very special places!  It was our first real vacation since we've been in MCC.  On the 22^nd will mark our 10 months of being in MCC.  This feels like a long time but really it has gone by so quickly!  We had not planned to return to the States so early in our time here in Nicaragua, but the opportunity arose and we happily accepted the idea.  We left June 11^th for three weeks to Colorado, Kansas and North Carolina. 

Highlights in Colorado—Boulder, Denver, Lafayette, Palmer Lake and Colorado Springs!

Becky, Jess, Liz & Erin at Vine St.

• Getting picked up at the DIA airport by our favorite Colorado aunties—Nan and Nadine!! What a great way to start our vacation!  We immediately went to Nadine and Norm's house for a BBQ in their beautiful backyard and patio.  Complete with a campfire in the evening.  In my first Colorado evening, I had to break out the jeans and hoodie with the climate change from tropical Nicaragua to a cool, dry Colorado evening.
• Seeing dear friends at our church and sharing our experiences from our time thus far.
• Walking around Wonderland Lake, our old stomping grounds, with Becky and enjoying an iced chai at my favorite coffeeshop in North Boulder!
• Spending time with Laurien and Henri in their adorable house in Lafayette.  Their home is so cozy and comfortable and we loved the time we had (although too short) to pick up where we left off!
• Enjoying all the flavors of our favorite restaurants in Boulder and in great company of course!! (Ohh, how I missed goat cheese and Mountain Sun french fries!)   
• Reuniting with our small group friends and catching up with wonderful people!
• Hiking with Nan in Pike National Forest and Monument Rock while being outside in the fresh, pine air!!  (I truly feel at peace and at home in the Colorado Rockies!)
• Eating delicious Mexican food with Gillis, Marika and there 1 year-old, Jack!  It was great catching up with them and seeing their beautiful house in Colorado Springs.
• Walking around City Park in Denver with Jess and her crazy dog, Kojack!  He's a nut, but we fell in love him at our first meeting!
• Wonderful times with awesome friends on the Vine Street patio in Denver.
• Our final gathering on Nadine & Norm's patio with friends!  
• Being taken to the airport by Jessica and her two boys, Benjamin and Philip.  Benjamin was more excited to see a police officer in uniform than he was to see us leave.  We asked the police officer to wave at the boys before we left and they loved it!!  Doesn't take much with a 4 & 3 year-old!

In Kansas—In Newton!

Dwayne, Ruth, Mark, Amanda, Nate & Kaitlin-BBQ Time!

• Spending time with Nate's family at his parents’ homestead.  They have a beautifully landscaped yard with trees and flowers, which we enjoyed!
• Many wonderful home-cooked meals by Ruth!  Bread, bierocks, lasagna, stir-fry, apricot cobbler, homemade ice cream (like four times), cinnamon rolls, and more!!  We gained about five pounds each in one week!
• Rain storms and cooler weather....yes, in Kansas and in June!  We had beautiful weather all week!  (Note:  The week following it hit the triple digits and I don't think they've seen much relief since!)
• Time spent with grandparents!  Sitting on Ethel's patio in her back yard and enjoying the lush greenery, flowers, birds and fountain.  Not to mention paging through her newest scrapbook of quilts and past projects.  She is so creative with a million more projects in mind!
• Eating thresher ice cream with Papa and Grandma Regier and all the Regier family!  Not to mention Grandma's burnt butter icing on her famous Italian Cream Cake!
• Swimming with Kaitlin in her pool as a thunderstorm slowly rolled in.
• Catching up with Mark and Amanda, who came down from St. Louis to see us.
• Nate playing music with his dad, sister and brother (the first time all four of them had a jam session together!)
• Time spent at the farm with friends Phil and Katie.  Paddle boating, walking around the pond and the boys playing guitar.
• Nate returning to the farm the following day for an early morning fishing trip with his dad and brother

In North Carolina—Cape Hatteras, Outer Banks!

Alison, Lindsay, Erin, Zach, Sydney & Emma!  The silly six!

• Getting picked up by my goofy siblings, Tim and Beky at the Norfolk airport.  They pretended they didn't see me as they drove by!
• Spending a night in a hotel with an outdoor pool complete with a perfect East Coast sunset!
• Arriving at the beach with almost a full extra day...so worth it!
• Ten adults and six children in one beach house = a fun-filled, action-packed week at the beach!
• Relaxing on the beach with the sounds of the surf.
• Breakfast with Dad and Kay at a local Pizzeria.
• Siblings breakfast out—never a dull moment when you put us four together! 
• Braiding all five of my nieces hair!  They loved their special ‘dos for the beach!
• Nate making Emma into a mermaid on the beach when she fell asleep in the sand!  Pictures are too cute!
• Playing games and watching movies in the evenings.  New favorite game-- “Ticket to Ride”
• Having time to chat with all of my family!
• Dance party with the kids when their parents were out to dinner...they have the moves, not too mention A LOT of energy!!
• Celebrating Sydney's 8^th birthday and Emma's 5^th birthday!  Johnny Cakes were awesome, Beky!

I returned with a sense of rejuvenation and piece of mind to start anew!  Someone special mentioned recently that we should keep things into perspective about our time here and not get homesick for all that we “miss” in the States.  I couldn't agree more!  I feel like in the scheme of things our time here is really short, and we need to make the most of it by being fully here and not missing the things we left behind, because chances are it will still be there when we return. 

I was telling Nate the other day that it's been refreshing to have a “vacation” from our lives in the States, in order to take stock of what our lives were like.  To see where we would want to make changes, to see what is really important and to be more intentional in our daily living.  In other words, I realize how impermanent our lives really are, and because of that we should make each day count.  It may not feel like a vacation here, but my point is that it is nice sometimes to be able to take a step back in order to have a deeper sense of our life situations, with (hopefully) a fresh perspective.

Continued prayers for safety during the rainy season and clarity within our work with AsoFénix are always appreciated.  We feel so loved by you all.  Thank you for your hospitality, for your love and for your support!  It was a great vacation and we will always remember it!  If you want to see photos on our special vacation blog site, send us a personal e-mail and we will in return give you the link to our photo site.  Additionally, I have updated our photo blog with 11 new albums from April through June.  Enjoy them at your leisure, and remember to stay in touch with us when you have a moment.  We always appreciate your e-mail updates and photos if you have them!

Bearing the Heat!

We hit our 7-month mark on April 22^nd.  Every month feels like an accomplishment, and in all reality the time has been going really fast.  Honestly though, we focus on one day at a time.  Largely, I think it’s learning how to deal with the heat here.  It is REALLY HOT here!!  It’s hard to explain and if you’ve never lived in a climate as such I’m not sure you’ll truly understand, but read on to get a sense! 

It’s in the upper 90’s every day with a “feels like” indicator of over 100 degrees Fahrenheit!  Plus, this last week the heat was taken to a new level—it now hardly cools off at night!  I would breathe a sweet sigh of relief when 4 pm would roll around because it would cool off and usually be pleasant enough to relax a little.  This is in Teustepe at least, Managua sometimes feels about 5-10 degrees hotter!  The heat subsides slightly through the night, but really there is no sweet relief anymore.  One Nicaraguan told me that the hotter it gets every day, the closer we are to the rainy season.  I’m thinking, seriously, how much hotter can it get?  Will I really be able to survive here? 

Here’s a feel examples of how hot it is here:

·     While riding the bus, my back and butt literally get soaked with sweat!  I sometimes sit forward in my seat so my back can dry off for a moment.  I rest my arms on the seat in front of me so they don’t touch my body and create more pools of sweat to run down my arms.  Then I get off the bus and walk a little and it all dries, until I hop into taxi and the process is repeated, sometimes several more times in one day.

·     This past week in the country I was so hot and sweaty that when the slightest breeze blew it felt as if an air conditioner was blowing cold air on me.  It seriously felt that cold!

·     At home when I am working on the computer, I sit about two feet from a fan, blowing on high.

·     I take about two showers per day, one in the morning and one before bed.

·     My freezer cannot keep up with my ice habits.  2-3 cubes per glass of water, iced tea, or iced coffee, which then proceeds to melt in 5 minutes!

·     I carry a fan into whatever room I am in.  Even if it’s for 15 minutes, air is better than no air, even if it’s blowing hot air!  I am so thankful for electricity!

·     Sweating has taken on a whole new dimension here!  Did I mention how much I sweat here?  It’s really quite disgusting, and so much for trying to wear my shirt the next day to save on laundry!  I can’t stand my own stench!  

·     The sun is so intense here!  Everywhere I walk, I am constantly trying to hop from one shady spot to another, no matter how crazy I may look.  It’s amazing how the shade of a telephone pole can provide enough shade and notable relief from the sun when waiting for a bus.

·     Native Nicaraguans talk about horrible the heat is all the time!!  How am I supposed to feel coming from Colorado?

·     The heat has a way of evaporating my brain juices and Spanish skills.  It slows down all of my motor skills, inhibits intelligent thoughts and sometimes gives me killer headaches.

·     Sometimes it’s so hot, all I want to do is take a nap, but then when I try it’s too hot to fall asleep.  

Well, that’s a taste of the heat here in Nicaragua.  Who wants to come and visit?  November through January is really quite pleasant, though.  It’s the dry and windy season.   Cold showers sometimes feel a little too cold!  All about finding the balance, right?  Currently we’re in search of sweet relief from the heat, however short that relief may be.  The rainy season will be upon us in the next month and then we will face our next obstacles:  humidity, swelling rivers and mud!!  Time to dust the big rubber boots!

Liz cooling off on our one hour hike to Corozo.

Nate chilling on a rock!

A Balanced Diet

In the last several months, I have been feeling the lack of variety in my diet and struggling with this a bit.  In Boulder, I loved to cook and bake.  It became a hobby, really— reading cookbooks, finding recipes, planning meals, experimenting in the kitchen with new ingredients, trying out new dishes and having people over for dinner.  Baked goods are in their own category because this is a great weakness of mine.  I love baking, especially breads and muffins!  Cooking is as much the process as it is the end result.  I enjoy savoring the textures, colors and flavors, which eventually fade away into a content feeling (leaving me with satisfied taste buds)!  With all the wonderful, gourmet restaurants around Boulder, I guess I would have to admit that I became a bit of a “foodie.”  For those who aren’t familiar with this term, it refers to someone who loves food, how it’s prepared and presented, and all the flavors, colors and pairings.  I grew up in a family who loves their food, and every family reunion tends to revolve around the menu.  Perhaps in part I can blame genetics, put I think geography played a role in my love for gourmet cuisine.  Simply put—people have money in Boulder, and therefore have developed a palate to healthy and delicious gourmet cuisine! 

I know I lived a good life in Boulder and had access to so many gourmet, all-natural and organic foods.  This allowed me to have a wide variety in my diet.  Since I moved here to Nicaragua, I struggle with cooking and my diet, especially since I am a vegetarian.  My two options for any lunch or dinner are rice or pasta—humm, let me think about that one for a while until the hunger subsides!  While I love beans and fresh corn tortillas, sometimes a little fruit and veggies are necessary!  I love food, I’m a foodie for sure and I realize that is a privilege I have.  I realize that people eat rice, beans and corn tortillas every day, three times a day, because that is the only option they have.  They eat to fill their bellies, not to savor all the flavors.  Economic and geographic factors limit variety and the ability to choose what they are able to eat.  Having choices in any realm of one’s life is really a privilege, not to mention an indicator of economic status.

In the end, I think what I’m trying to find most is balance.  A balance between the life I had in Boulder and the life I live now in Teustepe.  We shop at the local “pulperias” that sell the basics but since there are no supermarkets (let alone markets) in Teustepe, we find ourselves in Managua in search of more variety.  Crispy carrots, fresh peppers and broccoli are our splurges!  Seasonal fruit like mangos and avocados vary in availability in Teustepe, so we sometimes buy those in Managua as well.  We try to find a balance in our diets without being extravagant.  It is a process and a journey—mulling over all the emotions, thoughts and feelings that arise and fall, sometimes at the speed of a rollercoaster.  The awareness of all the choices I have is unfathomable when I compare my life to a rural Nicaraguan family.  The journey consists of little steps taken every day, and finding a balance is a constant challenge.