Friday, June 22, 2012

One full bus in a small world

Yesterday we had a full day in the AsoFénix office in Managua.  We left our house at 6:05 am to catch a taxi in town to take us to the highway.  That was about a half-hour wait and then waiting for the bus did not take long at all.  We hopped on and it was empty!!  What a nice surprise for once!  We found seats in the front and were able to work on the bus as we commuted into the capital. 


We got off at the airport and bought latte’s to jump-start our day, which is a rare treat!  Later we walked to the office, just ten minutes away.  We met in our outdoors “conference area” which has a tin roof in full sun.  From 8:30 am to 12:30 pm we were sweating like crazy in the humid heat in our meeting with three others.  The day went well and we were able to accomplish a lot, so that felt really good!  To be honest, we cannot usually say our office visits are that great, so it was refreshing to have a positive and productive day there! 

We left the office to catch a bus home in front of the airport at 4:30 pm.  It was taking forever to catch a bus and we were standing in the beating, hot sun with our heavy backpacks filled with clean laundry and laptops!  Finally a Boaco bus stops for us, but only sees us at the last minute and goes way beyond where we were standing.  We thought, "well, got passed again by a bus," but then he stopped.  We ran the equivalent of a block to catch the bus as it was waiting on us!  Have in mind that this is an old school bus from the states, so the back emergency door is used as a normal entrance to the bus. We climbed up into the back of the bus and it starts rolling before our feet even left the pavement.  The ayudante (bus helper) began yelling and shoving us into the people in front of us as we could hardly fit.  It was horrible and I told the ayudante that this was ridiculous and I wanted to get off because it was so full, and Nate still had his butt hanging out the back door as we were going.  So they keep yelling at people to move to the front (even though it's full throughout) and keep shoving us further into the bus.  It was a headache!  So we make our way through to the middle with our two big backpacks on our shoulders.  We find a little area to stand and I see a clearing in the luggage rack above but several people down.  Sine I couldn’t reach from where I was standing, I beg the young guy with headphones to help me get our backpacks up on the rack.  He did and we breathed a sigh of relief.  It was so hot and we were packed in the metal bus like a can of sardines.  All windows were open, yet everyone was sweating profusely.

I try to make a little more room for myself and note the woman on the seat below me is on the edge of her seat taking up precious inches of isle room where I could stand.  I was annoyed by her, and thought, why is she trying to take up even more space when she has a seat!  I commented to Nate in English how she was pushing into my legs and kept inching off the seat in my direction.  As I continued to access why she was being that way, I realized there was something (sticky, perhaps?) on the middle of her seat and she was avoiding sitting in it.  Okay, more reason to not be annoyed with her. 

The ride continues, and then the five-gallon buckets lying on their side near Nate start dripping oil onto the woman below us.  Mystery solved as to what was on her seat, but now it was slowly dripping on her face and clothes.  The leaking buckets were not claimed by anyone, nor did anyone pitch in to help out when she asked for a rag.  My backpack was too far to reach to get some tissues.  Nate, the woman and I all felt helpless in the situation.  Finally the man beside me left and I could move a little closer to my bags to reach the handy wet ones I keep there in case of random instances as such.  So I passed wet ones out to the woman and Nate as they were cleaning up the mess. 

As soon as the woman wiped up herself and her seat, she offered me the edge of her seat to share with her and her daughter.  I kindly accepted and thought back to how I was annoyed with this woman just twenty minutes earlier and now she was offering me an edge of her seat on the bus.  It goes to show how a small act of kindness can go a long way!

We began talking and she asked me which state I was from.  I said, Colorado and she was so surprised.  She lived in Westminster, Colorado for nine years (a fifteen-minute drive from Boulder).  She was working in a McDonald's on Federal for nine years and living with her husband and daughter.  She was back in Nicaragua for two months to visit her family. She grew up in a small community called San Diego (about 20 minutes from us in Teustepe), but has lived in the states for 14 years.  I work with several women in San Diego and we discovered one woman was her neighbor and she went to high school with her.  Such a small world!  We were both floored as we shared these details and talked for over a half hour, sharing a seat in a very full bus. 

Thank you, Selmira for sharing your seat with me on the bus.  It was great to hear your stories and share experiences with you.  Sometimes it is these chance encounters that make our lives richer and help us to realize how interconnected we are in this small world. 



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